He had a lot of energy and he was interesting. There were even a few moments during the 7 minute speech where he had the audience laughing. I could hear them on the video. Honestly, it was a good speech.
But, there was one thing I noticed. He kept pacing back and forth the entire time. This stood out to me because I noticed how much the camera operator had to move the camera during the video. My screen just kept moving left to right, right to left, left to right, right to…the entire time.
If the camera person kept having to do this with his camera, what was it like for the audience? Did they get dizzy?
The man on the stage giving the speech was me. I was watching myself give a talk to some high-school students. A friend of mine sat in the audience with my phone, recording the talk for me.
I was shocked at the amount of movement, not because I wasn’t supposed to move. It was just quick, abrupt and a LOT. ...
“Good morning everybody. I’m so glad to be here with you today.”
I wanted to yell, “BOOOOOOOOOOOO!”
It was a huge conference and he was the keynote speaker. But when he came up, he started with the same, tired line. I’d heard enough. We’d been through at least 3 gazillion speakers already and I wanted to hear something a bit different. I wanted the speaker to grab my attention and engage. But, these speakers looked like they were just trying to get it over with. I wanted them to communicate with ME and only with me.
How could they have done this? There are many techniques but one of the easiest ways is to ask a question. Why? Questions naturally cause the listener to begin the mental process of formulating an answer. While I don’t recommend this question, even a simple, “How is everybody doing?” causes the listener to mentally question, “Wait a minute, how AM I doing?”
I don’t recommend the “how are...
You’ve got 5 seconds…maybe 6. You need to grab their attention immediately and then hold it for some time after that. Public speaking or giving presentations at work can be some of the most terrifying moments you may ever experience. It’s weird because you’re not in any physical danger, yet your heart pounds like it’s actively attempting to escape from your chest.
This doesn’t happen at this level for everyone. Some will look very comfortable and at ease. According to Samuel Clemens, aka Mark Twain,
“There are two types of speakers: those that are nervous and those that are liars.”
If you are like me and have experienced speaking or presenting more than once, the feeling usually doesn’t stay the entire time. It’s those moments before and the first few seconds in. This is the critical time of judgment. This is when your audience decides if they are interested or not. If you lose them in the beginning, can you get...